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生活没那么多诗和远方，更多的是坎坷和无奈。 别一边不作为，一边抱怨，学会脚踏实地，更要懂得随遇而安。

Life is not so much poetry and distance, more bumpy and helpless. Don't do nothing, complain, learn to be down-to-earth, but to know how to be happy.